Hello

Well, that time of year is coming around again. Valentine’s Day - when expectations are raised, and often people are disappointed. There are websites and newspaper articles and friends and family who will give great ideas on what to do for Valentine’s Day to make it “special”. My advice - forget everything you read or hear.

Last VD (or Very Disastrous as I like to think of it) I had the most awful experience, and I am sure my date did too. In fact, I know he did, he walked out and left!

I had prepared some food, done all the things I thought he would like. The problem was, I didn’t do what he would like. Then, (as I had thought he would), he didn’t seem to appreciate all the effort I had put in, which in turn upset me. So, we had an argument. About something totally unrelated and stupid.

See the words I used above? I and HE and ME. Valentine’s Day (and every day when you are in a relationship) should be about the WE. Find out what your partner likes/wants/desires, and if it is something you like/want/desire to do, then do it. It’s about the together.

If you are not in a relationship with another person this VD, remember you are in one with  yourself, and take the same advice as above.

Love to everyone of you

Helen

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